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You just found your husband or wife has cheated on you and you are beside yourself of what to do.  You love your spouse but you don’t think you will ever be able to forgive and forget what has happened.  You may wonder if couples ever bounce back from cheating — they do — but it takes a lot of patience, work, and time.

If you want to stay with your spouse after infidelity, you need to get ready for some powerful healing up ahead.  You will need to go to marriage counseling and individual counseling.  You can do your marriage and individual with the same person or choose two different counselors.  The marriage counseling will help you both work together in building trust in your relationship again.  The individual counseling will help you work through the betrayal.

Before you make a decision to end your marriage, ask yourself if you are willing to work on it.  If you and your spouse are committed to getting through your marriage problems, then you can do anything.  Find a good marriage counselor, read some good books on infidelity in marriage and start talking about your feelings.  It’s going to take work from both of you to get through this major blow in your relationship.

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